Bashert: destinado
(a), em Idish. O termo Hebraico é Zivug.
Diz o Talmud que todos os dias sai uma voz do céu e
anuncia: "A filha de Fulano é bom casamento para
Sicrano"
Shidúch: encontros
ao estilo judaico com vistas a formar um matrimônio. A
figura do Shadchan (casamenteiro) existe deste os
primordios da história judaica, quando Eliezer, braço
direito do patriarca Abraão sai em busca de uma esposa
propícia para Isaque.
Neshamá: alma,
em Hebraico. A tradição judaica diz que homem e mulher
formam duas metades de uma mesma alma. Esta alma é
dividida em duas partes, que descem a este mundo e quando
se unem recebem uma benção especial de Deus.
"Já não sofro por amor", retumbante sucesso de Lucía Etxebarria na
Espanha (Ya no sufro por amor, ainda não lançado no Brasil, mais de
130 mil exemplares vendidos), é uma leitura perfeita. Parodiando os
livro de auto-ajuda que ensinam a fazer qualquer coisa para arranjar
um parceiro, a autora escreve sobretudo para mulheres em busca do
famoso "par perfeito" e joga baldes e baldes de água fria no sonho do
amor romântico. Para comemorar o Dia dos Namorados, escolhi o capítulo
seis, no qual Lucía enumera 10 mandamentos de uma relação mais ou
menos feliz:
1. Amar alguém que te corresponda: é, segundo ela, uma regra de ouro,
que elimina 95% das preocupações de uma relação. O equívoco mais comum
é acreditar que a outra pessoa vai se apaixonar por você com o tempo.
2. Procurar alguém com quem tenha coisas em comum: Lucía reconhece que
os opostos se atraem, mas que as possibilidades de estar juntos se
esgotam devido a incompatibilidades intelectuais e emocionais.
Universos muito diferentes, idéias políticas opostas, tudo conspira
contra a relação. "Se as diferenças básicas são pequenas, as
probabilidades de ter conflito são mínimas", diz ela.
3. Conheça, não imagine. Não projete: ela lembra que, cada vez mais, é
comum as pessoas acreditarem que conhecem o homem ou a mulher da sua
vida depois de três meses de relacionamento. "O que acontece é que
todos tendemos a projetar e a idealizar quando estamos apaixonados",
ressalta.
4. Não se aborreça: se o preço de não ter discussões no relacionamento
é aturar tardes de domingos chatíssimas diante da TV, a coisa não vai
funcionar.
5. Estabeleça as regras antes do jogo: se você quer compromisso, não
adianta embarcar em relacionamentos que são apenas casuais. Muita
gente mente ou oculta a verdade no início da relação para impressionar
o outro, o que a autora indica como sendo um grave erro. Deve-se
mostrar as expectativas desde o início de forma a não fazer com que
esperem de você algo que não está
disposto/a a dar.
6. Se fez com ele/a, pode fazer com você: alguém com antecedentes
pouco recomendáveis sobre seus relacionamentos do passado pode ser um
problema. Talvez não da mesma forma nem num primeiro momento. Se
deixou outra pessoa por você, tenha em conta que poderá te deixar por
outra.
7. Não sacrifique-se: nunca renuncie a algo que seja muito importante
para você com o objetivo de conseguir afeto. Trabalho, amizades e
família não podem ser descuidadas. Se no relacionamento vai perder
parte de si mesma, de sua personalidade, daquilo que te define, não é
uma relação, é um seqüestro.
8. O outro não é superior a você: ninguém é, lembra ela. É um bom
conselho para mulheres. Lucía diz que começar a pensar bobagens do
tipo "ele/ela é bom demais para mim" é entrar num caminho de
dependência. "Uma relação tem que ser igualitária. Ou não ser", diz
ela.
9. Não tenha segredos: se alguém não te aceita como você é, é porque
não te aceita. Não esconda seu passado sexual, não diga que gosta de
crianças se você detesta. "Ser capaz de conseguir confiança e apoio
mútuos com outra pessoa é a promessa mais clara de felicidade numa
relação."
10. Você merece ser feliz: se não é, busca, compara e encontre algo
melhor: não acredite em bobagens do tipo "minha vida não tem sentido
sem você". Uma relação nunca deve ser baseada em sofrimento ou
dependência.
Every person whom is born
on earth is a half of a whole, every single person has a
soulmate, and until one finds ones
soulmate, one feels empty, an inexplicable lacking.
Hence the importance to find ones "destined"
soulmate.
If a person is single and
does not have ones soulmate, nor does one have any hope of
meeting anyone suitable, then ones soul needs URGENT
attention and corrections need to be made, as it maybe a
person has taken the wrong
pathway , and needs correcting to be guided to the right
pathway . The Sefer Tikunim - ספר תיקוּנים, the "Book of
Corrections" provides our souls with the spiritual recipe to
make the necessary corrections.
Each person needs to
recognise that the only way forward in life is through a
transformation of ones character from being a selfish taker
of energy into becoming a creator of life energy through the
power of "LOVE",
Sefer Shinuyim in the chapter
"Life of LOVE" explains the transformation of thoughts
needed in a persons mind to connect ones soul to spirit
world and find ones
true soulmate with true love.
Sefer Tikunim - ספר
תיקוּנים, the "Book of Corrections" explains that a person
should make the following TIKUN - correction so that one can
OPEN the MAZEL and enable one to find ones soulmate.
Declaration of Destined
Soulmate
The first stage is to
acknowledge and really believe that one has a destined
soulmate. This comes from the Talmud written almost 2000
years ago.
ארבעים יוֹם קוֹדם יצירת הולד בת קוֹל
יוֹצאת ואוֹמרת
בת פלוֹני לפלוֹני בית פלוֹני לפלוֹני שׁדה פלוֹני לפלוֹני
"Forty days before a
person is conceived into this world, it is announced in
heaven - spirit world, the daughter of this man is destined
to marry this man, the house in this place - is destined for
their home, and this field (livelihood / business /
profession) is destined for this person".
Talmud Sota 2a.
The Prayer to find ones Soulmate
ארבעים יוֹם קוֹדם יצירת הולד בת קוֹל יוֹצאת
ואוֹמרת
בת פלוֹני לפלוֹני בית פלוֹני לפלוֹני שׁדה פלוֹני לפלוֹני
"Forty days before a
person is conceived into this world, it is announced in
heaven - spirit world, the daughter of this man is destined
to marry this man, the house in this place - is destined for
their home, and this field (livelihood / business /
profession) is destined for this person".
"Ribbone Shel
Olam, Master of the Universe, this is the spiritual law of
destiny, the declaration was made before my soul came to
earth, please guide me and help me find the right pathway
for my life, the right home to live in and i really want to
find my soulmate, please help me find my destined soulmate
that was declared for me in heaven 40 days before i was
conceived ".
"Please Ribbone
Shel Olam, Master of the Universe find a way for me where
there seems to be no way, guide and place me on the right
pathway for my souls destiny, so that i can fulfill my life
with my soulmate, who is needing me as much as i need him/her.
For the sake of my soulmate who needs me, please help me
find him/her so that we can be one together ".
The custom is to
say this every day 3 times a day, the essence of the prayer
is that one affirms the spiritual law of the declaration
made in heaven 40 days before conception, and then asks GOD
to guide one to find ones destiny and fulfill this spiritual
law.
One can use any
language one feels comfortable with, i know many people who
use the Hebrew version or the Yiddish version, the most
important aspect is that one OPENS up in prayer and asks for
DIVINE spiritual help to find ones destiny. The prayer
should come from ones emotions and heart, out of sincere
desire to find ones soulmate.
Sefer
Tikunim - ספר תיקוּנים
Book of Corrections
Explains that one
should pray every day in the morning at sunrise and at
sunset and in evening before one goes to sleep asking for
spiritual guidance to find ones soulmate. The key that will
open the door to ones life is ones true soulmate, so it is
vitally imperative that one finds ones key.
According to Sefer
Tikunim who learns from our forefather Jacob and Rachel that
it can take up to 7 Years, from the moment one starts to
pray for ones soulmate until one actually lives with him/her.
But Sefer Tikunim assure that NO ONE will ever have to wait
longer than 7 years !
Sefer Tikunim - ספר תיקוּנים
Sefer Tikunim
explains that it is customary for a single person to read
the story of Jacob and Rachel from Genesis Chapter 29, once
a week.
For those people who pray
the traditional morning prayers then they say this prayer
every day. Single people looking for their soulmate should
have in their thoughts that they are asking for DIVINE
guidance to find their soulmate, just like the Jewish people
needed Divine guidance when they were saved from Egyptian
slavery. The essence of the "shira" prayer is the jewish
people asked GOD - Hashem to make a way where there is no
way .
Similarly, when a person
is single and lost, we ask GOD to make a "way" where there
seems to be "no way".
1 A Song
of Ascents; I will lift up my eyes to the mountains: from
where shall my help come? 2 My help comes
from the LORD, who made heaven and earth. 3
He will not suffer a foot to be moved; He that guards you
will not slumber. 4 Behold, He that guards
Israel does neither slumber nor sleep. 5
The LORD is your keeper; the LORD is your shadow upon your
right hand. 6 The sun shall not hurt you by
day, nor the moon by night. 7 The LORD
shall guard you from all evil; He shall guard your soul.
8 The LORD shall guard your going out and
your coming in, from this time now and for ever.
Single men should then
say the prayer "Eshes Chayil" at least once a week. ( As is
customary to sing this prayer every friday evening before
Kiddush)
10 A woman of valour who can
find? for her price is far above rubies. 11
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, and he
hath no lack of gain. 12 She doeth him good
and not evil all the days of her life. 13
She seeketh wool and flax, and worketh willingly with her
hands. 14 She is like the merchant-ships;
she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She
riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth food to her
household, and a portion to her maidens. 16
She considereth a field, and buyeth it; with the fruit of
her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She
girdeth her loins with strength, and maketh strong her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good; her
lamp goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth
her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor;
yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21
She is not afraid of the snow for her household;
for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22
She maketh for herself coverlets; her clothing is
fine linen and purple. 23 Her husband is
known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the
land. 24 She maketh linen garments and
selleth them; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and dignity are her clothing;
and she laugheth at the time to come. 26
She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and the law of kindness
is on her tongue. 27 She looketh well to
the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of
idleness. 28 Her children rise up, and call
her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her:
29 'Many daughters have done valiantly, but thou
excellest them all.' 30 Grace is deceitful,
and beauty is vain; but a woman that feareth the LORD, she
shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit
of her hands; and let her works praise her in the gates.
Parnosa and Soulmate are
connected
Finding ones soulmate is
finding the key to ones destiny, similarly unlocking the
door of Parnosa - livelihood runs concurrently for most
single people to finding ones soulmate, therefore Sefer
Tikunim explains single people should also unlock and pray
for Parnosa. By unlocking ones parnosa blockage one will
simultaneously unblock ones destined soulmate.
פרשת המן - The Daily Heavenly Bread "Manna"
in wilderness Parnosa - פרנסה ,
the specific prayers to ask for opening up from spirit world
of money and livlihood, the importance of the power of
prayer in earning money in ones life, coupled together with
physical action, allows the flow of energy in our lives.
The connection
between finding ones soulmate and livelihood is the reason
the Talmud discusses jobs and earning money in the tractate
of Kidushin, that discusses marriage.
Talmud Kidushin 82explains fully
the section of the Talmud the discusses career, jobs and
profession. The ethical and spiritual codes of how to earn
money.
In this section we shall
explain the meaning of "soulmates" and how to find and
identify ones true soulmate, taken from
Sefer Shinuyim - the "Book of Changes".
We shall explain the
spiritual law of "Two types of "SOULMATES"
one type that gives one difficult and challenging
experiences in order to teach one important lessons in life
and the other perfect harmonious soulmate that is excatly
identical to you as he/she is your "other half", the exact
piece one has been searching for since one was born to
complete ones soul.
After reading this
section we know and hope you will be placed on the right
pathway to find ones true soulmate and stop wasting your
vital souls energy on the "wrong ones" !
This section on "Soulmates"
is explained in 7 stages:-
1.Explaining the purpose and meaning of "soulmates" and
"soul groups".
2.Explaining that one actually has 2 Soulmates
עזר כנגדו, one is a help עזר,
the other is a challenging opposition כנגדו.
4.Explaining the reason for the amazing inexplicable
magnetic attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses
and knows ones soulmates thoughts and feelings.
Explaining that only the
two people "know" they are each others soulmate, whilst in
other peoples "sensible eyes" they appear to be unsuitable
and even unequal.
5.Explaining why there are difficulties whilst "soulmates"
are trying to come together, through blockages of קליפות "shells
of negative energy covering ones soul", created from other
peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to be
blocked.
How soulmates themselves
generate their own קליפות "shells of negative energy
covering ones soul", negative energies which challenge, test
and doubt themselves until they are 100% absolutely certain
to know that this person is ones soulmate. Then explaining
how to negate any קליפות, negative, challenging and opposing
energies in making 2 soulmates coming and being together.
6. Explaining that every soulmate couple is a עולם קטן "small
world". The principle of soulmates needing to protect
themselves and live in their "own world" refusing to "allow-in"
any destructive or negative energies into their relationship
and having their own unique purpose and mission in their
lives.
7. Explaining the spiritual loving energy that is
created by soulmates everytime they "make love", which
creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen their
bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually.
1. Explaining The Purpose
And Meaning Of "Soulmates" And "Soul Groups".
The true purpose of the
gift of life on earth is inorder for our souls to learn and
experience life, through all kinds of events, opportunities
and challenges throughout our lives.
Thankfully we are not
alone during our journey of life, unless ofcourse a person
believes themselves to be selfish egocentrical "individuals",
then even amongst large groups of people they are lonely and
disconnected.
"The Soulgroup"
During our journey of
life, we travel on this earth in "soul groups", that is a
group, culture and identity where all the members of the
soul group understand each other and live on the same
physical and spiritual wavelength. The members of ones soul
group may not all be alive on earth, they may be spiritual
souls who have passed onto to Spirit world but mantain
contact with you as they are part of ones soul group in much
the same way as "Guardian
angels" .
One will always be able
to rely upon ones soul group to help, guide, assist, the
souls in ones soul group will make 100% certain that one
succeeds to fulfill ALL of ones lifes goals, objectives,
challenges and purpose ones soul came to earth to learn.
Once a person has learnt
the lessons of ones life, it is possible to elevate ones
soul into a higher soulgroup, and likewise if one makes a
bad decision one can move out of ones soulgroup into a lower
group. Nontheless one always has the intrinsic continual
opportunity and chance to return to ones destined soulgroup
and likewise on is always guarenteed to be able to find
their perfect soulmate, through the help of ones "Guardian
angels" and helpful souls from ones soulgroup.
"The Soulmate"
Talmud (Sotah 2a) teaches that "destiny" has designated
each and every individual with a soulmate. The "soulmate" is
actually the other half of a person. With ones soulmate one
is wholesome, without it one is void and empty. With ones "soulmate"
comes a "package" of a home to live and profession/job and
purpose in life.
The spiritual and
physical energy of planet earth resonates to the number TWO,
everything on our planet comes in pairs. The Earth itself is
paired with the Moon, the identity of the Earth needs the
Moon to exist both physically and spiritually, in the
renewal of energies monthly and daily tidal flows, as the
magnetic pull of the Moons energy causes high and low tides
- the Earth needs CHANGE to exist.
The emphasis and
importance of finding ones true soulmate is the key to
success in life. The two halves that make the whole, once
together one can lead a fulfilling and purposeful life of "destiny".
Having the "wrong half" means one does not have ones
soulmate hence one does not have "the key of life" to
fulfill ones true destined purpose in life. Without the
right "key", ones life will seem frustrating and unlucky -
like stuck in a locked room full of closed doors . It maybe
nice few hours, but would be frustratingly painful to remain
there for the rest of ones life !
The purpose of the "soulmate"
is to make a person feel wholesome with LOVE and enable one
to accomplish the mission and purpose of life through
physical, sexual and spiritual LOVE energy. Everything
constructive and good in this life is only created through
LOVE. Only through the loving energy created together with
ones soulmate creates the perfect energy to live, bringing
meaning to everything in ones life.
2. Explaining that
everyone has 2 Soulmates, עזר כנגדו , one is a help עזר, the
other is a challenging opposition כנגדו.
Everyone has freewill
choice in life, even when we think we are making a choice,
it is either categorised into a good decision or a bad
decision. Both decisions are choices that are potentially
destined for our soul, the bad decisions we make will
challenge us and make life difficult for us in order to
guide us to change, making the corrective decision and
finding the correct good pathway, our soul instinctively
only finds "inner peace of mind", when we are on the correct
pathway.
Most people only learn
from bad and challenging relationships. Such connections
will have a similar instantaneous magnetic attraction as
good relationships, as they too, are destined in order to
teach a person important lessons, but they will continue to
repeat past patterns if bad relationships as there is a
lesson a person needs to learn, and until one learns the
lesson one will keep on being magnetic to the bad and "challenging"
type of relationships.
The 2 Types of Soulmates
"עזר - The Help"
"עזר
- The Help" soulmates are always 100% on your side
with continual support, help, love, passion and an eternal
unconditional LOVE, and whom would NEVER EVER hurt you.
Whenever one plans, talks
and thinks ideas with ones true helpful soulmate, they
constructively help to energize ones life with loving energy,
enabling one to overcome any negativity, moving all
obstacles and finding the correct pathway to success. As
ones true helpful soulmate always knows that they are ones "Other
Half", when something good happens to the other half of them,
they too benefit from this good energy.
"כנגדו - The Opposition"
"כנגדו - The Opposition"
soulmates teach a person by constantly challenging, through
emotionally bitter lessons with pain and difficulties. The "opposition"
bad relationships always cause a sensible person to "go
closed" on themself emotionally in order to protect their
soul.
Prefering to live alone in
ones mind and thoughts than communicate with such a
destructive person in a dysfunctional relationship. A
feeling of "living with the enemy" ensues, and everything
one plans or tells such a person gets blocked and thwarted
by their destructive and negative thought energies, critical
words and horrible actions.
Until it comes a point in
ones life, where one says "ENOUGH" ! At such a "breaking
point" a person may loose faith in love, loose faith in
relationships, loose faith life and worst of all - loose
faith in GOD.
But when a person realises
that such a relationship is a dysfuntional "כנגדו -
Opposition" soulmate, then this makes a person find an inner
strength, admitting to oneself the truth of the bad
relationship and then learning how to find ones true 100%
loving soulmate the soulmate of "עזר -
Help".
"עזר - The Help" can sometimes be a
"כנגדו - The Opposition"
There are times that we
all make mistakes in our lives, and even though we are
living with and have found our 100% loving soulmate, he/she
may challenge us and be absolutely right to challenge with
the strength of "opposition".
They act in this way of
challenging "opposition" as they are wishing to defend their
own soul, through love of their "Other Half" of their soul,
they are trying to protect the relationship by any
destructive external opposing energies and any negative
influence or bad decision the other person has made. They
are "challenging and opposing" out of a deep sincere love,
in order to protect the wholesomeness of their perfect
soulmate union.
"כנגדו - The Opposition" can sometimes
turn into "עזר - The Help"
"כנגדו - The Opposition"
soulmates always have the potential to become perfectly 100%
loving soulmates, with no more need for bitter experiences,
pain or difficulties ONLY when they have have refined and
elevated their soul after learning the necessary lessons
their souls need to learn.
Soulmates may choose to
start their relationship through a "challenging" and
opposing energy, however, by working together and
challenging each others individualism they are able to
transform themselves into a single UNITED soulmate, through
negating any opposing energies that exist by learning to
completely love each other, and thereby transform their
relationship into a 100% loving helpful soulmate union.
3. Explaining How To Find
Ones
True "Soulmate"
When meeting new people
in life, connections and bonds are made either because the
people share a "common interest" or because one person has
something the other person wants.
"Physical Chemistry"
In the case of love and
relationships, men and women are magnetically aroused and
attracted to each other. Nontheless not all men are
attracted to all women and vice versa, there needs to be a
certain "chemistry" that makes a man and a woman "fall in
love" with each other.
This "chemistry" is the
energy of the thoughts in the mind, that is a man and a
woman only really feel a connection to each other when they
are in harmony with each other in their mind & thoughts.
This "common factor" enables a wholesomeness and fullness in
the relationship, otherwise the love is merely a superficial
animal - instinct sexual love, which usually fades within a
few weeks.
Human beings who are
connected with each other, need to have an ability to think
the same way as each other, they need to have a "common
factor" in order to feel the relationship is wholesome.
Hence the reason why single people join clubs and
organisations, or have hobbies and interests as a sense of
identity of their personality. Thereby enabling themselves
to meet "like-minded" people and hopefully find a suitable
man/woman with whom they can have a meaningful relationship
with, as their inner minds and thoughts will be sharing
similar identities, emotions and feelings.
If either become
disinterested in the "common factor" that originally united
them, then their relationship will have communication
problems leading to an automatic "falling out of love", as
their thoughts and energy of their minds no longer have
anything "in common".
When a couple are not
growing together, then they are growing apart in their
diverging lifestyles and interests. Such a relationship will
eventually fail completely, unless one of them changes to
become like the other.
"Spiritual Chemistry"
The next level of
relationships is that people feel a "magnetic" attraction, a
"twinkle in the eye" or very lovely inner feeling, even
without talking. Relationships that are prompted by "just a
thought" of them, seeing them or seeing anything that
reminds you of them, that is your mind and soul is
connecting yourself with their mind and thoughts.
Such thought energies are
ones mind and soul communicating with you and likewise with
the other persons mind and soul is feeling the same inner
feeling for you, your souls are communicating with each
other, this gives you the "inner spiritual feeling" that you
are made for each other, an inexplicable inner "spiritual
chemistry".
Such a "spiritual
chemistry" is definately a sign that this is someone
important in your life and definately from ones "soulgroup"
as explained above. The important question "how do you
identify if they are your true soulmate?" This needs you to
understand the "soulmate chemistry":-
"Soulmate Chemistry"
Soulmates, and all
members of ones soulgroup have a unique telepathic
communication of thought energies in the minds and souls of
the whole soulgroup. All the souls of ones soulgroup know
and sense exactly what the other members are feeling. They
all have the same thoughts, feelings and emotions at the
same time. They feel pain, when people in their soulgroup
are in pain, and likewise they feel the happiness, love and
strength from the other souls in their soulgroup.
The "soulmate chemistry"
means that all the souls of the soulgroup are constantly
connected even if they are physically far away from each
other, they are very close spiritually, as their soul, mind
and thoughts are constantly connected.
This "soulmate chemistry"
is the reason why ones "guardian
angels" and
loved ones in spirit world, are in constant contact with
ones soul, as they are members of ones spiritual soul group.
The only reason a person feels alone and not in contact with
people of their same soulgroup is because one may block or
deny the existence of "spirit" world, believing that one
needs to "get on with normal physical life" instead of
including a "spiritual enlightened pathway" within ones
physical existence in this life on earth.
Only when a person is
connected spiritually and "open" to be guided spiritually,
then through "soulmate chemistry" of you and your soulgroup,
through ones "guardian
angels" and
loved ones in spirit world whom are waiting to help you
find a spiritual pathway, one is assured to be guided to
connect with and find ones true soulmate.
How To Find Your True
Soulmate
The first step in finding
your true soulmate is to believe in GOD, Spirit world,
Guardian Angels and that through your connection to good
souls in Spirit world from your soulgroup, you will be
guided to find your soulmate or that your soulmate will find
you.
"Asking for Guidance For
Ones Soul"
Tikun Neshoma - תיקון נשמה
Sefer
Tikunim in Tikun Neshoma - תיקון נשמה explains when a
person has lived a life void of any belief in GOD, belief in
spiritual afterlife or in a "Spirit World of Souls", then a
person should light 3 candles to connect "spiritually":-
One candle for GOD, one
candle for ones guardian angel and one candle for ones soul,
and then pray that one should be guided spiritually to
correct any mistakes one has made whilst living a life VOID
of any belief in GOD, and ask to be guided along the right
pathway destined for ones soul.
Whilst praying one will
feel spiritually enlightened, with feelings of awareness and
belief in GOD and belief in the existence of a spiritual
soul. Such feelings and understandings will bring a person
to see a "bigger picture", that life on earth is part of a
spiritual journey for ones soul, with a unique and destined
pathway for each and every soul to experience emotions,
events and changes.
Connecting to Spirit World
With Prayer Will Help to Strengthen Your Soul and Enable
Your Soulmate to be Found and Bring You Together
Every prayer helps to
connect ones soul to Spirit world and brings a person closer
to the DIVINE GOD that creates and sustains this Universe.
All connections to "Spirit
World" will increase and strengthen your spiritual strength,
this includes praying at the gravesites of spiritually
strong and good souls, especially
praying at the gravesites of good people one knew and
loved, and/or praying at
Famous Rabbis & Rebbes holy gravsites, sending prayer
requests into the
Famous Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel and ofcourse continually
giving
thanks for the gift of life whilst asking for help and
guidance to find ones true soulmate.
One can use the
Prayers for Soulmate from Sefer Tikunim, but even
stronger one should use ones own language to pray from ones
heart for ones soulmate with a few heartfelt emotions and
tears.
It does not matter what
time of the day or night, whenever one intuitively and
spiritually feels the right moment to pray and ask for
spiritual help, then light a candle and pray in whatever
language you understand. The stronger ones inner spiritual
connection the sooner ones true soulmate will be found by
spirit world and you will come together.
Lighting Candles For Your
Soulmate
Light 2 Candles :
One For You and One For
Your Soulmate
In preparing for your
soulmate to come into your life, you will develope a
selfless and spiritual character, by lighting a candle for
the soul of your soulmate even though you have not met him/her
yet, you are showing a love, compassion and desire to pray
and help someone else, who is actually YOUR other half.
Learning to show love,
desiring to give selflessly and unconditionally to another
person is all part of "growing-up" from being a demanding
selfish child to loving unconditionally, and thereby become
a perfect potential parent.
Ask yourself, "would you
give EVERYTHING of what you have to your soulmate?" if the
answer is "YES", then you have understood that giving to
your soulmate is infact just giving to yourself, a cycle of
life energy. The concept of sharing and giving love in a
soulmate loving relationship is the spiritual basis of life,
as in the cycle of life in the whole Universe, the DIVINE
GOD constantly gives everything to everyone.
When praying for ones
soulmate, never focus your thoughts on any particular person,
as they may
not be yours, and an even better person will be your
destined perfect soulmate, and then be "open" to listen to
your inner voice of guidance and ACT, there is no point in
praying and then DOING NOTHING when one has a feeling to go
somewhere or speak to someone !
"Within 12 Months"
The Spiritual guarentee
from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and from
Famous
Rabbi Yonatan Ben Uziel, is that within 12 months of
prayers of asking GOD and Spirit world to find ones true
soulmate then one will find him/her, DIVINE coincedences,
experiences and feelings will occur to guide you to your
soulmate and guide your soulmate to you.
In section 5 below we explain why there are difficulties
whilst "soulmates" are trying to come together, through
blockages of קליפות of other peoples negative thoughts that
envelope a person to be blocked, and explain how to negate &
eliminate these blockages.
"Compare to Modern Day
Internet"
If one is searching for
someone on the internet than one first needs to get a
computer and be online, then a person needs to search by
using a search engine like
google
or yahoo.
Similarly spiritually, in
searching for ones true soulmate, one first needs to believe
in GOD and Spirit world, connecting by way of prayers and
lighting candles for GOD and Spirit world for DIVINE help to
find ones soulmate, and then "be open", listen and allow one
to be guided to meet ones soulmate.
Everyone has a perfect
soulmate and when you find him/her your soul will
instinctively know, your life will "magically" open up with
an amazing life vitality of love and life-giving energy.
With your true soulmate
you will feel an eternal LOVE energy, as soulmates existed
in spirit world before we were born when our souls arrived
on earth and will existe unified together once we die and
leave this earth. The intermediary years of life on earth is
the challenge that we must ensure we waste no time in
finding our true soulmate to live a wholesome purposeful
loving life together.
The True Soulmate
"One who looks for money,
beauty, status or anything physical in a relationship
In seeking your true
Soulmate ask yourself the following questions:-
When contemplating ones
emotions with respect to ones true soulmate, one needs to
ask "Do you want to be so different from that person?" OR
"Do you wish to actually be identical to that person, and be
a part of that person, in every single way ?"
In the desire to be that
person, and become a complete part of that persons life
because indeed a true soulmate is the "other half", one is
motivated and prepared to change ones mind, thoughts and
even physical existence to be with him/her, energized by a
magnetic love from the soul.
This power from ones soul
is an identity that indicates ones "true soulmate", the
desire to reunite your souls together as ONE in this world
as you have been before you came into this world and will be
united eternally in spirit world after leaving this physical
life for eternity, and refusing to allow anything physical
or material distract or block your souls from being together.
One will not find true inner "peace of mind" withing ones
mind and soul until one is with ones true soulmate.
4. Explaining The Reason
For The Amazing Inexplicable Magnetic Attraction Of
Soulmates.
In this section we
explain the spiritual reason for the amazing inexplicable
magnetic attraction of soulmates, and why one feels, senses
and knows everything ones soulmate is thinking and feeling.
Instantaneous Magnetic
Attraction
Soulmates have an
instantanous magnetic attraction to each other, as their
relationship is blessed by DIVINE GOD, blessed by Spirit
world and "destined"
as a "key of life" for their lives together on earth.
Even people who try and
fight this magnetic soulmate love desire for each other,
will find their efforts to block themselves futile and will
eventually be together. As soulmates will never find "peace
of mind" and true purposeful fulfillment of their souls
until they are together, both physically and spiritually
together. True soulmates always need and lovingly enjoy
being together all the time.
The reason for this
inexplicable magnetic attraction between soulmates is that
their
Guardian Angels are guiding them and bringing energy to
both people simultaneously, in order to "force", guide and
bring this soulmate couple together. Ofcourse selfish ego,
stubborness and freewill choice can block this, but
eventually "soulmates" always come together. Each persons
Guardian Angels will ensure this happens, however illogical
!
Wrong Relationships Always
Fail
Similarly, the reason why
"wrong" relationships, lovers and marriages fail is that
each of the individuals
Guardian Angels are conflicting with the other persons
Guardian Angels, both individuals are incompatable on a
spiritual level and hence eventually they end up conflicting
on a physical level.
A "sign" for this is that
there are conflicts, disharmony and inbalances in the
relationship and very often a person enjoys having "SPACE"
away from the other, and in the "space" a person feels
enlivened and happy for this freedom ! This requirement for
"space" is an energy from ones
Guardian Angels to pull one away from a bad and wrong
relationship.
Once the wrong person is
out of ones life, "good fortune" always happens in a persons
life, as a spiritual sign from ones
Guardian Angels that one is now on the correct pathway
and free from that "negative" person .
Everyone believes in "SIGNS"
as these give everyone an indication of good energy, a good
omen to ones soul which is living in this real physical
world that one is with the right person doing the right
thing at the right time. If one feels "uncomfortable" or
misfortune happens where it has not happend before, then
take this as a sign and have "closure"
and please run away from them !!!
Once one has "closure"
from "draining" people, a positive energy of excitement and
"aliveness" is given by ones Guardian Angels, this is
because ones soul is
"blocking success" when one is with bad people. The more
spiritual and sensitive a person is, the stronger the "blocking
energy" caused by other peoples
transference energy, through ones Guardian Angels as
sign to protect you.
Soulmates Communicate by "Eye
Contact"
אסור לאדם לקדש את האשה עד שיראנה
שנאמר ואהבת לרעך כמוך
The Talmud Kidushin 41a explains that a person is
forbidden to marry unless they see each other with their
eyes. The Talmud does not say "talk to each other" or kiss
etc., but the talmud says a person needs to "to see" with
ones eyes.
This is because ones eyes
are the windows to ones soul, and "eye contact" means that
your souls are communicating with each other. Only by "eye
contact" will you know that this person is your soulmate and
only through your continual "eye contact" your souls are
communicating with each other.
5. Why There Are
Difficulties Whilst "Soulmates" Are Coming Together? Created
By Blockages Of קליפות Other Peoples Negative Thoughts That
Envelope A Person And Block.
Sometimes there are
difficulties whilst "soulmates" are trying to come together,
through blockages of קליפות of other peoples negative
thoughts that envelope a person to be blocked, the reason is
that the union of "soulmates" is VERY POWERFUL and many
people are jealous, hateful and spiteful with envy that one
has developed spiritually with a wonderful soulmate union of
love, even destructive and controlling "well meaning"
parents can be jealous and create negative blockages!
Negative Blockages -
קליפות
קליפות -"kleepes"
literally translated are "layers of hard shells".
Spiritually the word קליפות - "kleepes" is used in reference
to shells of negative energy that attach themselves to ones
soul and prevent "life energy" from DIVINE GOD and from
Spirit world coming into ones soul, these קליפות - "kleepes"
are created by negative emotions and thoughts such has hate,
jealousy, deceit and lies. These negative blockages are
created by a person or by other people who wish to block
ones life.
"Blockages" are created
by negative thought energy hence they are easily
cancelled-out through the power of prayer and speech, as
explained in the chapter
Loss by "Transference".
Resisting "Change" Creates
Blockages
When a person finally
meets their soulmate, they will both be in a transition
period of inner change, until they come together as one in
physical sexual love. This is because both have been living
a "half life" without their soulmate and adapted to a
dysfunctional life whilst living alone. Therefore, some
changes will be necessary.
If either one resist
these changes in their lives, through their independant,
selfish childish ways of thinking, or their stubborn ego
then this creates קליפות - "kleepes" negative blockages.
Only when they realise that each other is the "other half"
of the other and then decided to grow-up into mature
selfless adults.
At that moment of inner
decision they will both resist the need to create blockages
of moving forward by "holding onto" their past, and then
they will come together for a united wonderful future for
their soul which is ONE, and then there is no longer such
thing as 2 people in a soulmate, they are simply ONE unit.
Other People Who Wish to "Control"
And "Own" Your Soul Creates Blockages
The other blockage of קליפות is created from
other peoples negative thoughts that envelope a person to be
blocked, the reason is that the union of "soulmates" is VERY
POWERFUL and many people are jealous, hateful and spiteful
with envy that one has developed spiritually and has a
wonderful soulmate union of love, even destructive and
controlling parents can be jealous and create negative
blockages!
Single people who feel
that they are "into their career" or "committed" to their
job, profession or business and have no time for loving
relationships, may think they are making a good decision
themselves, however in reality they do not OWN their own
souls. They have "sold their souls to the devil", to their
career or to the love of "making money", as they are not in
control of their own lives and have given their soulful
power away, this will create the same blockage in their
lives, and thwart their own spiritual success in finding
their true soulmate.
These negative blockages
are dissolved by cancelling out through prayer, power of
speech and inner change, as explained in
Loss by "Transference", then the couple must learn to be
100% closed and be
spiritually protected to such negativity which is trying
to challenge and block their soulmate union.
Dissolve All Negative
Blockages - קליפות
Light A Single Candle
6. Every Soulmate Couple
Is A
עולם קטן "Small World".
Every soulmate couple is
a עולם קטן "small world". The principle of soulmates needing
to protect themselves and live in their "own world" refusing
to "allow-in" any destructive or negative energies into
their relationship and having their own unique purpose and
mission in their lives is vital to the existence and
survival of their soulmate world.
Therefore, whenever a
soulmate couple feels any form of negativity in their loving
relationship - light a single candle, and embrace each other
with love, as they are ONE, this unity symbolized in ONE
candle and connecting with the DIVINE Spirit world will
protect them and negate any negativity from whomever and
wherever it has come from.
When a soulmate couple
are together they are protecting each other from any
external negative influences, in fact they are living in
their own עולם קטן "small world" and almost oblivious to any
negativity that exists or any negativity that they would
have sensed when they were single. Being together and living
in their own world, especially when unified as one unit in
making sexual love, creates spiritual and physical love
energy which protects from all negativity.
7. Everytime "Soulmates"
Make Sexual Love They Create Spiritual Energy That Protects
Their Souls
There is a spiritual
loving energy created by soulmates everytime they "make love",
which creates a spiritual protecting energy to strengthen
their bond, energize their lives and grow spiritually.
The act of making
sexual love with ones soulmate unites the two seperate
physical bodies in the most natural way, the womans body is
lacking and the mans physical body has the missing piece
that unites the two bodies. Only through their loving
arousal for each other, through passion and love they unite
in the act of sexual love.
Everytime one makes
sexual love this creates spiritual energy for ones
united soul, the same way that "making sexual love" brings
the potential for a child to be conceived, that is to say
that "sexual love" has the potential to bring a spirit soul
down from spirit world of souls into this physical world.
Likewise everytime one makes sexual love with ones soulmate
this unites the physical and spiritual union of their soul
and creates a powerful spiritual energy.
"Make A Wish"
Sefer Shinuyim explains
that at the specific moment a man orgasms, ejaculates sperm
inside a woman, he has brought an angelic and spiritual
energy into this world.
The spiritual tradition
at this specific moment is for a man to then say "make a
wish", although once they both become accustomed to each
other they he no longer needs to say it as the woman knows,
even so if a man feels a very special energy - he should say
"make a wish".
The spiritual energy of
the angel created by the sexual love in the soulmate union
has the energy to help, guide, protect and bring good
fortune into their lives, but it needs the woman to receive
the blessing and for her to "make the wish".
It is a reward and thanks
to the woman for her passion and love that the man has the
energy and desire to love, this is her unique reward for her
kindness, support and love for her soulmate man.
(This is spiritual reason
that use of condom or "coming outside", masturbating, or any
other act other than a mans penis inside a womans vagina
making sexual love, creates a negative blockage of energy
upon the soul קליפות , as explained above and on the page "Health
& Diet".)
We understand that this
section on "Soulmates" is long and the webpage
Life of Love is very long, we wished to keep the
original from Sefer Shinuyim - Book of Changes and not split
the pure knowledge in different pages.
The Hebrew word טוב means GOOD -
Gematria Numerical Value 17
The only true goodness comes when one is
wholesome with love of ones soulmate
Chapter 17 of Sefer Shinuyim is "Life of Love" is the
most important chapter as it is the KEY to living life in
this world, connecting this physical world to the eternal
spiritual world with LOVE of GOD, LOVE of Life and true LOVE
of ones Soulmate.
The Essence and source of
ALL goodness in the world is LOVE. The Power and Energy of
LOVE eliminates all negativity, blockages, death, sadness
and evil. The Power and Energy of LOVE creates energy from
Eternal Spiritual world which heals our souls and bodies in
this physical world. Love is the key to everything in this
World and journey we call "Life".
